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(becoming) closer to God through Proverbs 6, part 5c: a heart that devises wicked schemes

Hearts cascading into each other, gradient

As we discussed in the last post, the problems of an unclean heart are major – and we cannot solve them ourselves.  That doesn’t mean our situation is hopeless, however.  There is one (and only one) cure for unclean hearts: God’s love.  Only God is able to transform our selfish hearts into selfless hearts, hearts filled with love for Him and for others.

This week we’ll look at the effects of that transformation.

Some of the effects of this transformation are visible.  When we have God’s love in our hearts, we can see a difference in the way we treat others:

Through [Jesus] you believe in God, who raised Him from the dead and glorified him, and so your faith and hope are in God.  Now that you have purified yourselves by obeying the truth so that you have sincere love for your brothers, love one another deeply, from the heart.  For you have been born again, not of perishable seed, but of imperishable, through the living and enduring word of God.  (1 Peter 1:21-23)

But in your hearts set apart Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect, keeping a clear conscience, so that those who speak maliciously against your good behavior in Christ may be ashamed of their slander.  (1 Peter 3:15-16)

The verses above show that our clean hearts are often evident in our actions.  We obey God’s truth and show active love for others.  We are prepared to talk to others about our faith – but we do so with gentleness and respect.

In the last post, we discussed the close relationship also between the condition of our hearts and our words – but mostly with a focus on the negative.  In contrast, we see the positive aspects of this relationship when we have God’s love in our heart.  When His love is in our hearts, our words reflect that:

I have set the LORD always before me.
Because he is at my right hand,
I will not be shaken.

Therefore my heart is glad and my tongue rejoices (Psalm 16:8-9a)

May the God who gives endurance and encouragement give you a spirit of unity among yourselves as you follow Christ Jesus, so that with one heart and mouth you may glorify the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ.  Accept one another, then, just as Christ accepted you, in order to bring praise to God.  (Romans 15:5-7)

And, as these verses, suggest, while we are dependent on God’s grace in all of this, He does not intend for either our hearts or our mouths to be passive in this process.  The Bible regularly encourages its readers to actively employ their hearts and mouths – and all they are – in service to God:

Sing and make music in your heart to the Lord, always giving thanks to God the Father for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ.  (Ephesians 5:19b-20)

In fact, the Bible teaches that both our hearts and our mouths play a part in our salvation.  Paul writes (referring to a passage from Deuteronomy),

But what does it say? “The word is near you; it is in your mouth and in your heart,”that is, the word of faith we are proclaiming: That if you confess with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.  For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you confess and are saved.  (Romans 10:8-10)

And while (as Paul reminds us elsewhere) salvation is a gift from God that we can never earn, we must decide how to respond to God’s gift.  The response God calls us to begins in our hearts – but it cannot end there.  It isn’t just a feeling we get one day, and it’s not a matter of completing a church ritual.  A true belief will affect the way we live.  (As Paul also said, “‘I preached that they should repent and turn to God and prove their repentance by their deeds’” (Acts 26:20).)  A heart that truly accepts the love of God will respond with loving words and actions.

Again, please don’t get caught up in rituals here, which vary from culture to culture.  What matters is that our response to God’s gift of salvation changes us inside AND outside.

And of course, the most important part of having God’s love in our hearts is the effect it has on our relationship with Him.  When we have God’s love in our hearts, we are closer to God:

LORD, who may dwell in your sanctuary?
Who may live on your holy hill?

He whose walk is blameless
and who does what is righteous,
who speaks the truth from his heart
and has no slander on his tongue,
who does his neighbor no wrong
and casts no slur on his fellowman,
who despises a vile man
but honors those who fear the LORD,
who keeps his oath
even when it hurts,
who lends his money without usury
and does not accept a bribe against the innocent.

He who does these things
will never be shaken.  (Psalm 15)

As the passage above says, we can dwell with God when our hearts are right with Him.  And it is this relationship with God that provides us with assurance of our status as His beloved children:

Now it is God who makes both us and you stand firm in Christ. He anointed us, set his seal of ownership on us, and put his Spirit in our hearts as a deposit, guaranteeing what is to come.  (2 Corinthians 1:21-22)

Furthermore, it is in this loving relationship with God that we find His joy and peace:

Sing to him, sing praise to him;
tell of all his wonderful acts.
Glory in his holy name;
let the hearts of those who seek the LORD rejoice.

Look to the LORD and his strength;
seek his face always.  (1 Chronicles 16:9-11)

But the Counselor, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, will teach you all things and will remind you of everything I have said to you. Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.  (John 14:26-27)

Clean hearts – hearts transformed by God’s amazing love – are wonderful things.  However, as the last verse suggests, clean hearts can be hard to maintain.  So many things that can dirty our hearts beg for our attention.  Next week we’ll look at the problems our clean hearts face – and the resources God has provided for us in our struggle to keep our hearts clean.

Next Week: a heart that devises wicked schemes, part 4

Last Week: a heart that devises wicked schemes, part 2

Start of the Series: (becoming) closer to God through Proverbs 6


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(prayer) warrior wednesday #4

Below are the requests for the week.  Please take just a minute to pray for these requests.  If you would, please leave a quick comment – “praying” as a comment is sufficient – so the ladies making these requests can see they’re being prayed for.

Remember: if you have a prayer request for the week, you can put it in the comments below OR email it to me by Monday night, so I can put it up on Wednesday.  (Email: awomanforhim@gmail.com)

Thanks, everyone, for making this sort of encouragement possible!

1. Praise for a healthy, wonderful addition to our extended family!  Welcome baby Gemma!

2. Please pray for a family friend who is hoping to get some good news this week regarding her health.

(prayer) warrior wednesday #2

Below are the requests for the week.  Please take just a minute to pray for these requests.  If you would, please leave a quick comment – “praying” as a comment is sufficient – so the ladies making these requests can see they’re being prayed for.

Remember: if you have a prayer request for the week, you can put it in the comments below OR email it to me by Monday night, so I can put it up on Wednesday.  (Email: awomanforhim@gmail.com)

Thanks, everyone, for making this sort of encouragement possible!

1. A family member is facing a big decision.  Please pray that she would be able to discern God’s Will.

2. Another family member is trying to figure how many outside activities are too many for her family.  Please pray for God’s wisdom as she and her husband try to make the right decisions for their family.

(prayer) warrior wednesday #1

Hi, y’all.  I was thinking it would be nice if we could share prayer requests on Wednesday.  That way people who come to the blog can pray for these requests.  Even if it’s a quick prayer, I think the idea of people all over praying for these requests would be awesome. 

This week, I’ll put two requests I have.  In the comments, you can just leave a quick comment letting me know you’re praying, if you’re willing to pray for that request.  That way we can all see that people are really praying for these requests.

You can also leave your own prayer request in the comments.

In the future, I’d like to post other peoples’ prayer requests on Wednesdays.  So, if you have a prayer request for the week, email it to me by that Monday night, so I can put it up on Wednesday.  (Email: awomanforhim@gmail.com)

I think prayer is a very powerful tool, and I think it’s encouraging to know that other people – even people you don’t know – are praying for you.

So, my requests for this week (I’m sorry these are vague, but I’m almost positive none of these people would want to be identified):

1. Two lovely friends of mine are going through a very discouraging time.  Please pray that they would be encouraged and that they would feel God’s peace during this time.

2. A dear young man is in need of guidance from God.  Please pray that God would continue to pursue him – and that he would be open to that pursuit.

Thanks, everyone!  (And please send your requests by Monday so I can post them next Wednesday.)

(mini) Post #1: Quote

Saw this quote on a friend’s facebook page.  Loved it.  Thought I’d share it.
I love the encouragement this quote provides: that whatever our season of life, God has us here for a reason.  Our service to Him, even if it seems small or insignificant to us, is our way of demonstrating our faithfulness!  Awesome.
“This job has been given to me to do. Therefore, it is a gift. Therefore, it is a privilege. Therefore, it is an offering I may make to God. Therefore, it is to be done gladly, if it is done for Him. Here, not somewhere else, I may learn God’s way. In this job, not in some other, God looks for faithfulness.”
― Elisabeth Elliot

POST #1: (becoming) a community of women

goal of this blog: I’d like to create a community of believing women who uplift each other and encourage one another in all areas of their lives. My hope is that this blog can create a network of women who can seek each others’ counsel, knowing that their honest questions and struggles will be met with love, compassion, and encouragement.  [Please see the “About” section for more on this.]

why i think this is an important goal: I think Christian women need encouragement from a strong system of other Christian women.  I think women’s natural tendencies towards gossip and insecurity often undermine our relationships with each other and with others around us (husbands, kids, unbelieving friends).  I think solid connections with other women who are trying to walk with God can combat this type of culture and instead refocus women’s talkative tendencies towards communicating effectively and lovingly, and refocus their insecurities towards a reliance on God and a recognition of others’ worth.

how i’d like to meet this goal: By posting entries on Mondays (maybe more once the blog gets established?) designed to promote discussion, interaction, and action in our lives.  Most of the posts will have a specific challenge associated with them.  I think a mistake many of us make is talking about changes we need to make — but never making them.  (I know I’m guilty of this!)  My hope is that you’ll share your successes and roadblocks in the comment section under each entry.  You never know how encouraging your situation might be to another woman!

why i believe it’s important for lots of people to contribute to a blog like this: Because we all have different experiences, we can all offer each other different things.  I can get a discussion going, perhaps, but I can’t offer what each unique woman who reads the post can offer.  This idea of everyone contributing their ideas is Biblical, as well.  In 1 Corinthians 14:26 we’re told: “When you come together, everyone has a hymn, or a word of instruction, a revelation, a tongue or an interpretation.  All these must be done for the strengthening of the church.”  How can your unique talents and experiences strengthen this community of believing women?

first challenge: What would you most like to get from a blog like this?  What do you think a community of women trying to live for God could offer you?  What might you be able to offer that community?  Please post your answers in the comment section of this post.  Which of your friends might enjoy a blog like this?  Send her the link!

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